Blasé and Nonchalant

Everything in this life is a cycle and part of it is getting hurt and moving on

The Gentle Claw

Classes has already begun, and this has been one of our assignment in one of my general education subjects that I am now taking up, Women Studies, and the question was: “WHY DO YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF A WOMAN?” Funnily enough, I find myself having a hard time answering this question (na parang hirap na hirap ako sa pagkababae ko, haha!), when we are just simply asked to make a short 2-paragraph essay about it… FORTUNATELY -I was able to do it and this is what I came up with and I think this is something worth sharing. :)

“WHY DO YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF A WOMAN?”

Daughter. Sister. Niece. Aunt. Godmother… and soon a wife; a mother; a grandmother. These are several of the words that are; and will soon be tagged to me as a woman. But what is the real essence of being a woman? Is it simply the same as described in biology –being defined with the sex organ, or is there more to it than just that? Well, for me, I strongly believe that there is definitely a greater and deeper sense of being a woman than just being biologically “female.” A woman should be defined as someone who’s strong and not fragile; someone who courageously voices out what she deserves rather than being voiceless and unheard; someone who sees through the critical eye and witnesses what is immoral and unjust; someone who actively makes a stand and fearlessly makes an action to fight for the issues she sees especially on injustices and inequality. True, too, that a woman is defined to be emotional and gentle, but that does not mean that she can be treated unfairly. Like a lioness who has a gentle claw, women tend to be gentle especially with their young but ought to use their strength if faced with challenges.

After describing what the real essence of a woman is, I am proud to say that I, myself, am a woman because of the same passion that I have described earlier. I am a woman who has a mission to make a difference in this world. A mission to inspire and motivate people; to help them understand, grasp, actualize, and vocalize their own worth; to negotiate a better deal for themselves; take more responsibility for themselves; and eventually to inspire others also, as they empower and reinforce our youth to make a difference too. :D

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